Welcome to the new blog series, Recipes for Mom! I can’t wait to get this started and expand on it more + more. So many ideas rolling around in my head!
So what exactly is this new series?
I could have called it…
- recipes to a new foodie
- recipes + tips to refresh your life
- recipes for health
- healthy kitchen 101
However, I decided on “Recipes for Mom,” for a few reasons.
Over the last 20+ years, my mom has racked up quite the medical history. Her problems have all stemmed from a diagnosis of ulcerative colitis, at age 40. I’m not a medical professional, but my opinion is that mom’s medical history was not a direct result of what she was eating. Sure, there were probably certain foods that would have helped her UC and some that made it worse, but the ulcerative colitis was not caused by dietary choices. Also, 20 years ago, treating illness with food wasn’t as popular as it is today. She may have been able to better control her UC, but at the time, it didn’t seem to be an option. She also had an extremely severe case.
A brief rundown of my mom’s medical history:
- ulcerative colitis, treated with a slew of medications, that caused many of the following
- arthritis
- osteoporosis
- hip replacement
- large colon removal
- bacterial meningitis [after being on immunosuppressant drugs, near death experience]
- rotator cuff surgery
- sleep apnea
- obstructed sleep apnea surgery
- sciatica problems [since June 2010]
- sciatica surgery [February 2011]
And this is just from what I can remember!
Throughout all of this, it hasn’t been easy to stay on track with constant healthy eating. My mom also has a fairly high-stress job, with a lot of take home work each night. She doesn’t have hours of time on her hands for grocery shopping + cooking. My dad is also very busy with a co-owned appraisal business, typically working 6-7 days/week. And there’s also the golf addiction. ![]()
My parents don’t eat poorly, by any means, but they are always saying they want to do better. They’ll try things that I have on the blog here + there, but I think some of the recipes + foods are a bit intimidating.
Since my mom’s latest sciatica problems, it was really hard to stay on track. She was in pain. A lot of pain. All over her body. The last thing you want to do when your body is in fiery pain, and having just worked a long day, is be on your feet in the kitchen. Even when you’re not in pain, it’s hard to get in the kitchen after a long day.
Healing from surgery, has taken months. It was extremely difficult. She was out of work for almost 2 months and in constant pain. She has finally started to feel a bit more like herself in the past few weeks. Ever since my trip home and her trip out to Colorado, my mom has had a surge of motivation to get back on track with food + exercise. She [and my dad] want to eat less meat, try new foods, eat less packaged/processed foods, and learn how to quick a handful of go-to weeknight meals that don’t take an hour to prepare.
Please remember that I am not a registered dietician, doctor, or trained health professional. Please consult your doctor before changing your diet, starting a new fitness routine, and for all medical related questions.
The basis of this new series is for beginners wanting to enter the world of health + ditch the idea of going on a diet. This will be about your diet, but it’s not about going on a diet. It’s for people who are confused on how + where to start and are not familiar with things like quinoa, kale, millet, tempeh, buckwheat, chia seeds, flax, etc. It’s for people curious on what items to stock in their pantry and what kitchen tools are most worth investing in. It’s for people that want to have fun with food and not see it as a chore, or something to be afraid of.
Simplicity in the kitchen!
My plan is not set in stone, and I can’t wait to expand on it more + more in the coming months. My hope is to inspire my mom + dad, friends, YOU, anyone at all. Maybe this will all be redundant for you. Maybe you will hit the “snooze” button on these posts. Maybe this is just the thing you needed. Either way, I can’t wait to get started!
One of my most used kitchen tools is the fine mesh strainer, pictured below. I use it practically everyday, and sometimes numerous times for 1 meal.
This little tool, will set you back $5-20, which will be worth it in the first month.
Fine mesh strainer uses:
- rinsing beans
- rinsing grains [quinoa, millet, etc.]
- draining small batches of pasta
- draining liquid from any canned good
- sifting flours for baking
- straining cooked liquid mixtures, to keep out food pieces
- straining citrus juices to keep the seeds out
Typically, I use this for rising grains + beans, which I eat a whole lot of!
A few places to buy a fine mesh strainer: [I recommend 6-8”]
- Amazon $16.99 [for the 6”]
- Target $4.99
- Crate + Barrel $9.99 [the one I have!]
What are we cooking today?
Millet! What exactly is millet? It’s a nutrient dense, gluten-free seed, that has a mild-nutty flavor, with a fluffy texture.
Here is the nutritional profile for 1 cup of cooked millet.
1/4c uncooked millet, yields approximately 1c cooked millet
*Edited to add – Millet actually has a high glycemic index level. I confused the original number with the glycemic load number. My apologies!!
Millet is packed with nutrients and health benefits that you can read about here. It’s quite possibly my favorite seed/grain and is extremely versatile. Millet can be paired with almost any meal and can take on any flavor you want!
Where can you find millet? Great question! You most likely find millet in the bulk section of your health food store. If you can’t find it, you may want to ask your store to carry it. You can also always buy in bulk online! I love storing my bulk goods in 32oz mason jars. It keeps them organized + fresh! At Whole Foods, I can buy organic millet for $.99/lb!
The first thing you’ll want to do is measure out your millet, depending how much you want to cook, dump it in your fabulous new strainer + rinse!
I always use cold water and rinse for about 30 seconds, until the water runs clear.
I typically cook 1 cup of raw millet, which yields about 4 cups cooked millet. When I do this, I start off by adding 1T cold pressed, extra virgin olive oil to a medium pot, over medium heat.
After letting the oil heat, I add the millet in.
And then stir for 1-3min until slightly browned. This helps to deepen the nutty flavor of the millet, but can be skipped if you’re in a hurry!
I use 2c water : 1c raw millet ratio. I’ve read 3:1 before, but have found 2c works best for fluffy results. I typically use 100% water, but you can incorporate low-sodium veggie stock [or organic/free range chicken/beef stock] for more flavor.
I bring the millet to a boil.
Stir once. Reduce heat to simmer + cover with a tight fitting lid.
Then I set the timer to 20 minutes, and let it simmer away.
Simmer = small, frequent bubbles
During the cook time, I prepare the rest of my meal. Typically something with beans, and 1-2x a week tempeh or tofu. I also always have some sort of greens involved. We eat kale chips [will get to that soon!], salad, or steamed/sautéed greens every single night.
This particular night, I cooked tofu. It was my best cooked tofu yet! The key to good tofu texture, is pressing out the liquid between dish towels, for 30min.
After 20min, turn the heat off, and move the pot to a neighboring burner. Let sit for 5min. You can also skip this step, but it does help with the texture!
Here is the cooked millet.
Next, you want to fluff it with a fork, just like cooking rice. Using a fork really helps keep things fluffy, light, and slightly sticky.
{fluffy love}
Typically, I top millet with just a little butter or soy free Earth Balance, fine grain sea salt + freshly ground black pepper.
You can dress it up more if you like, but this simple style is my favorite!
The full meal included:
- simple cooked millet
- tofu [tossed in coconut aminos, honey, brown rice vinegar, coconut oil, salt, pepper, garlic + a sesame oil drizzle at the end]
- 4min sautéed kale with garlic + salt
Simple Cooked Millet [4, 1c servings]
- 1c raw millet
- 1T olive oil
- 2c water
- salt/pepper/butter as preferred
- Heat a medium sized pot, over medium heat + add 1T olive oil.
- Rinse millet in a mesh strainer, until the water runs clear. ~30sec
- Add millet to the pot + stir 1-3 minutes, until lightly browned. *optional step
- Add in water + bring to a boil.
- Stir once, reduce heat to simmer + cover with a tight fitting lid.
- Let cook for 20min, until all liquid is absorbed. Do not open the lid or stir while cooking!
- Turn burner off and move the pot to a neighboring burner for 5min.
- Uncover and fluff with a fork.
- Serve and top with seasonings of your choice.
*For more flavor use 1c veggie stock + 1c water, instead of 2c water.
*You can use 1T unrefined coconut oil, instead of olive oil, for a slight coconut flavor. Perfect to go along with coconut curry dishes!
*If you only want 1 serving, using a smaller pot, reduce millet to 1/4c, water to 1/2c, and oil to 1 teaspoon.
*If you want millet all week long for 2-4 people in the house, make a larger batch with 2c raw millet, 4c water, and 2T oil. It will keep in the fridge for about 4-5 days.
Another reason I like to cook millet plain, is so I can use it all week and dress it up however I like. You can reheat millet, with a sprinkle of water in the microwave or in a pot/pan on the stove. Add whatever seasonings you want!
I love using millet for breakfast!
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And even like throwing it cold on a salad.
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Check out my recipe page for even more millet ideas! In your internet tools, use “find” and search for millet. Then you can arrow through all the recipe titles including the word millet.
And that raps up Recipes for Mom {intro + part 1}
Hope you enjoyed it!
Ashley




thank you for reminding me how much I LOVE millet! Have you ever tried it with a bit of onion added in while cooking? Delicious!
I think I’m going to love this series!!
Sometimes, when I make a Mexican spiced version, I add onion with other spices. Delicious any way, really!
What a great idea for a series! It sounds like it could be useful for a lot of different people.
And the millet looks delicious. So light and fluffy! I’ve never made it at home, but I definitely want to give it a try! The nutrition stats are awesome.
My mom has health and digestive issues. It’s great that your mom is open and willing to change. I envy this aspect! I freaking love millet. I have some hiding in my cabinet and I think it’s high time I bust some out! I hope your mom continues to take positive steps towards improving her health.
I hope so too and I think she will! Thanks Amanda!
Thanks for the recipe, I love millet, it is my favorite grain!
Just bought millet and have been mulling what to do with it. Thanks for a great start!
As kids, many of us learn to cook from our moms, and over time have had cookbooks and recipes passed on to us. I love that you are able to help your mom out and share recipes with her to help her health.
Hope you enjoy it!!
Thanks for this series! I work full time and take classes part time, so I definitely need all the help with simple, healthy meals that I can get! And I’ve been interested in trying to go gluten free to see if I feel healthier. All around excited!
You’re so welcome! I don’t feel healthier eating gluten free, but my body feels better! I realized I have an intolerance to it, that causes me to be extremely bloated.
Your Mom is so beautiful! I hope this new series helps her feel better. I love the millet step-by-step, thanks so much
I loved this. After a year of reading the blogs and finding what’s right for me, I’m learning lots and now my college daughter is reading and learning. Yours is one of the best. Thanks for all that you’ve done. We love Buckwheat Bakes, Homemade Almond Butter, Coconut Butter, and lots more.
You’re so welcome. You have no idea how excited I am that you are enjoying those recipes!!
Thanks for your tips on cooking millet. I usually use millet to cook millet congee(porridge/gruel).
I cook quinoa quite similarly (without olive oil step). But it might be a good idea to add some oil since I cook using a stainless steel pot too and the oil might prevent sticking on the pot?
You’re welcome!! Sometimes I add oil, sometimes I don’t..but it’s definitely a bit more moist when you add the oil. I can’t think if it makes too big of a difference with sticking to the pot….hehe
Love your millet post! I began loving millet about a year ago thanks to your blog but sometimes I don’t think I’m always cooking it right. This really was helpful!
Looking forward to this new series! I’m always eager to try new foods and cooking styles but wary of doing it wrong. Can’t wait for more from you!
And your mom is a warrior for dealing with so much! She sounds like a truly amazing woman!
Aw, yay!! I’m so glad you like millet and have found this post helpful.
And yes…my mom rocks!
I love this series! What a great idea that will help so many. I commend your mom for being so open! I really do think plant based foods can be healing for many things. When I started eating a plant based diet, many of my stomach problems that plagued me for most of my life went away (I have IBS) and I also had chronic inflammation in my eye that went away, among other things.
Get well wishes to your mom!
Wow! That’s great your problems cleared up and I couldn’t agree more. However, with her large intestine being removed it makes things pretty tricky! Things move through pretty quickly and nutrients are fully absorbed…some things you would think would help, like leafy greens are actually hard for her to digest. We’re trying though! One task she gave me was coming up with a mom-sized green smoothie recipe. Not a 600 calorie, Ashley smoothie.
Oops I meant to say a huge congrats about your new photography gigs! I always knew you would do so well in this profession.
I can’t wait to see new pics!
Thanks…you are just too kind.
Hi Ashley,
I hope your Mom feels in tip top shape soon enough! All the best to you both 
I was also diagnosed with UC when I was 8. I know all about the terrible effects of treatments including arthritis and osteoporosis. I agree genetics seem to play a huge part but I have found that a number of things mainly stress and diet can trigger a flare up. It’s one of those things where you feel a step ahead one moment and the next you find yourself 3 steps behind. It’s all about learning about your body and the process of trial and error. You can hear details of my story on my blog, http://www.othatgirl.wordpress.com. I’m currently 20 years and have been free from the hospital for many years. I am studying Nutrition in school and only hope I can help others with what I have learned after all of this time. I now know what foods I would label tolerable and intolerable for my body. Feel free to e-mail me and I can tell you what I know
Thank you so much for your comment, Tichina! It’s even trickier for my mom now with her lg. intestine removed. It’s all a game of trial + error!
I made millet last week before I saw your post and didn’t find it that fluffy. I will have to try again with your suggestions. Have you ever tried to simmer the millet with miso? That’s what my recipe recommended.
Nope! I’ve actually never eaten or cooked with miso. I want to though!
Have you made millet in a rice cooker instead of the stovetop? Just wondering because that’s how I cook quinoa and it’s so easy and “hands-off”.
I don’t have a rice cooker, but have heard good things!
I love the taste of millet, but as Lindsey mentioned above, Glycemic Index and Glycemic Load are two different things. Glycemic load of 21 is actually…really bad for blood-sugar control! But who gives a ** when it’s so delicious?
I really need to get that strainer by the way. Everytime I cook quinoa or amaranth, I basically waste at least one-fifth of it!
Oh wow…that’s crazy! I’ve read other places that this is good for controlling blood sugar as well…I’ll have to look up more on it!!
Awesome millet tutorial! I’ve never eaten it before, but love trying new grains
I’m really excited about this series. I know what all the ingredients you listed are, but I still feel like a beginner in the kitchen. Lucky for me, I have millet in my kitchen right now! I just need to buy one of those fine mesh strainers:-).
I made this… but definitely need lessons on how to cook kale and tofu!
Awesome! Hope to do that at some point!
Not sure my mom will ever be a tofu lover though, haa
I had never had millet before, but after reading this post, I went out and got some. I love it!!! I tried it plain with salt and pepper, then I tried the curry version, and tonight I made up my own millet recipe (one of those “throw a little of everything in a pot and cross your fingers” experiments) and it was SOOO GOOD! Of course I didn’t measure anything, so I probably will never be able to recreate it. I’ve been having so much fun with your recipes. Thank you for introducing me to so many new healthy foods!
Hi Kerry!! Thanks for letting me know you tried and love millet. That’s so exciting!! Your curry version sounds delicious. Way to get creative!!
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So I finally tried cooking millet your way, and I am now in love with it! I’ve tried before but it was always to gummy and sticky. I will always cook it this way from now on! Can’t wait to have leftovers with breakfast!! Thanks for posting!
YAy!!!! This makes me so happy to hear!!
It works with quinoa as well…but just cook for 15min instead of 20!
i absolutely LOVE millet! it is one of my favs….i love it drizzled with a little honey and topped with some cashews…YUM-O!
Oooh, I’ll have to try putting honey on it!
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Awesome!!! So super fluffy…I love it!
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I just bought millet for the first time. Running across your post was perfect timing! Thanks for the detailed instructions. Much appreciated! I look forward to your subsequent posts!!
So glad this post was helpful for you!
Hey there– I just read your post about millet. Lovely! I’ve been delving into kale, quinoa and beets for the past few months but just recently started in on millet. Your instructions were quite amazing! I just wanted to caution you: tofu is really not good for you at all. Please read this website and search for other literature: http://natural-health-center.blogspot.com/2008/07/dangers-of-tofu.html Healthy eating is so important, but not everything people think is healthy really is. Thank you, again!